She interviewed 60 women and men about their relationships — the highs, the lows, whether and when race factored into those highs and lows, what led them to date outside their race, how their families received their partners, how they were received by their partners’ families.It’s an academic approach, but with a clearly stated mission at heart.“It is my hope,” Judice, a sociology professor at Northwestern University, writes, “that presenting their stories will cause more black women to intentionally seek to broaden their idea of suitable dating and marriage partners.”That conversation, she said, is long overdue and not easy to have.“What I’m bringing up, for many people, is very sensitive,” Judice told me.Discussions with her black female friends, black female students on campus, black female audience members at various panels often turned to the women’s difficulty finding love.The book, Judice said, is not intended to dismiss black men as loving, suitable partners.Judice first became interested in the topic after spending time with black families around her in Evanston and nearby North Shore communities.
Black women are, in fact, the least likely group of women to marry outside their race.
After their teen years ended, she observed, their social experiences took dramatically different turns.
By their late 20s and early 30s, she writes, most of them had graduated from college and started their careers.
We just swooned, after all, over a royal wedding between a black woman and a white prince.“Prince Harry was born the day my husband and I got married,” Judice said.
” My friend was gushing about the whimsical first date she had last week.
Chicago Tribune columnist Heidi Stevens and Northwestern sociology professor Cheryl Judice discuss Judice’s book about black women’s experiences dating and marrying white men.